My Metamorphosis :: Pyschology, Informative

My Metamorphosis   For umpteen years I thought that extroverts were selfish. That they deliberately sought attention in order for people to think well of them. I pee late come to the realization that this is a case of sour grapes on the component of we introverts. In fact we are the selfish ones.   Introverts hold themselves back from tender interaction out of a fear of negative reaction. We feel that if we decease visible to a group then we will somehow looking for foolish and and so feel totally embarrassed. It is our belief that until proven otherwise, we are potentially perfect in the eyes of all strangers. If we can therefore navigate the perceptions of other people well enough, they will continue to cogitate we are perfect. And with any luck they will come to feel positively towards us.   This is such a joke on so many levels. The open-and-shut fallacy is that even if people do form a friendship or some other relationship with us, it will not be our t rue self that they are seeing. This is the reason we feel so undeserving of the love that people offer us. In the back of our minds we know we have been conning them and do not deserve their love.   Extroverts on the other hand, seek to divert and educate others by their own actions and words. They are not usually come to with how good they will look but how happy or diverted those around them are. They are not self-conscious and are therefore more than likely to show their